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How to use music for setting the mood

Happy, fun vibrations! we are going to delve into a bit of knowledge about music and human experience... sexually... YAY!

     Music can be a great compliment to a wonderful sexual experience. During the sacred dance of bodies and spirits of one, two... three... 4... -okay whatever you do in your bedroom is your choice-.. Their heart, their breath, sounds etc, play a song of desire, communication, lust, and love that only the partaking... or maybe those listening in wink emoticon, get to experience. This creates a special type of bonding within fantasy and reality that cannot be recreated exactly, or undone.

Because it helps us connect with our sexuality and revs up our libido, music can actually play a greater role in sexual arousal than physical touch (but let’s not be hasty). Music is a powerful mood changer. The endearing melody of a song has the potential to unite hearts.

     When choosing a set list for the evening, carefully select your soundtrack. Imagine the type of night you and your partner are to have. Are you two getting sensual, and slowing down. Or is this a quickie before work to get you pumped up for the day. Choose the song according to the mood you want to set! Be mindful and considerate, even accommodating to the time of day and what is going on in your partners life (since the idea is to seduce your partner, make sure you know your audience)... if you play a sad song for tonight’s soiree... and your partner just experienced a lost loved one.. You may end up holding them in your arms choking back tears instead of getting hot and heavy. There are songs that get you pumped up. The theme from Rocky actually makes me want to do push-ups and run laps… also most songs from Space Jam. Jungle by Jamie m. Commons makes me want to prepare to be a warrior. Keep this in mind when choosing your soundtrack for a Romantic evening... if you two are just getting to know each other, prepare your own personal music list and set up a time to listen, swap and make a cumulative playlist, this can keep the connection strong and confidence up (then you know for sure your partner is into the vibes being played.)

     Something else to think about and discuss between the two to... infinite of you is volume control. Music should be an accompanying soundtrack, not the featured event. You do not want to be whispering sweet nothings in your partner's ear and have him respond, "Umm ... what did you say?" can you say MOOD KILLER! Not what we want...

Quick tip…. keep your playlist on repeat. Make it long enough to start with... at least an hour... (Once again depending on what the plan for the night, day, afternoon is) repeat allows you to go “overtime” without an abrupt halt to the exterior stimulating sound... or roll with it and start singing A Cappella.

Psychology sidetrack....

Music has been noted to assist students in learning. After much research, John Hopkins University listed the benefits of music in learning.

Music helps us learn because it will:

*Establish a positive learning state
*Create a desired atmosphere and build a sense of anticipation
*Energize learning activities and change brain wave states
*Focus concentration and increase attention
*Improve memory and facilitate a multi-sensory learning experience
*Release tension and enhance imagination
*Align groups and develop rapport
*Provide inspiration and motivation
*Add an element of fun and accentuate theme-oriented units

-now add this to the bedroom ;)

To finish off, here are some people that might have said stuff that is pretty awesome about music…

“music is the mediator between the spiritual and sensual life” – Ludwig Van Beethoven
“I think music in itself is healing. It is an explosive expression of humanity. It is something we are all touched by. no matter what culture we’re from everyone love music” – Billy Joel
“music in the soul can be heard by the universe” – Lao Tzu
“you are the music while the music lasts” -T.S. Eliot
“music is the shorthand of emotion” – Leo Tolstoy
“music is the strongest form of magic” – Marilyn Manson
“music can open a person’s physical body to allow the spirit to play” –me (Meagan Dagg)
“music happens to be an art form that transcends language” – Herbie Hancock

To some, setting the mood will be their favourite metal band another couple may through on jazz, still others, the sound of nature in their backyard. Whatever the vibe, play in it, express and explore any genre - either way the sexual experience is amplified.

Thanks for reading.


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